~Sex tips~

Act out your most daring sexual fantasies through imaginative sensual games.

 

Improve your sexual techniques and spend time enjoying each other's bodies.

 

"Oral Love Letter"

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Use your tongue like a pen and "write" on her clitoris, spelling out each letter of the sentences you've devised in your head. This ensures you're varying your movements and means that you won't over stimulate one particular area.

 

Exploration leads to enlightenment.

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Explore your own body when you are alone to find out what turns you on and don't be afraid to experiment. This is the way to great sex, as the female orgasm is easy to achieve through clitoral stimulation by yourself, and the resulting knowledge will last you a lifetime. Once mastered, you will achieve orgasm within minutes whenever you require.

 

"Hot and cold" Give your man a new oral experience.

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Requires:

 

One hot tub for two (not too bubbly).

One naked man (any will do).

One hot drink (not boiling).

One ice cold drink (fizzy is best).

Get your man to relax into a warm bath. Even better if your have a spa or Jacuzzi big enough to share. Alternate hot sucks and cold sucks with a mouthful of drink and manhood at the same time.

 

"Treat your partner like a table"

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Lay your partner flat, cover them in a fruit salad and your choice of cream, whipped is best, then eat your way to ecstasy.

 

Tips for stripping:

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Avoid garments that you have to pull over your head.

 

Don't wear tight socks.

 

Drop each garment on the floor as you take it off.

 

Wear sexy underwear that your partner has never seen before.

Hot Sex Tip 1

Pee before playing with your G.

G-spot stimulation can make some women feel like they need to pee, which in turn makes them tense up. Try to go to the loo beforehand that way you know your bladder is empty so you can relax and enjoy the sensations instead.

 

Hot Sex Tip 2

G-Whizz

The Whizz is a waterproof (12) G-spot stimulator, which means you can take it in the shower with you and forget about wetting the sheets. For sheer sexual decadence use the Whizz on yourself while your man aims the showerhead pumping look warm water over your clitoris.

ITS AS EASY AS A, B, G.

Cosmos sex expert Sarah J Hedley explains how to hit the G-spot

Most of us have heard about the G-spot and filed it away in the back of our minds somewhere between the Scarlet Pimpernel, Lord Lucan and God. We know the name, but when we try to find our own hub of ejaculatory pleasure its elusive at best or its disappeared entirely, and then were not sure it ever really existed at all. Have faith my fellow sex kittens. Your very own Mount G is waiting to erupt; you just have to know how to warm it up

Forgive me if you know this bit already, but the G-spot is a small mound of puckered flesh around the size of a 10p-piece found two inches or so up inside the front wall of the vagina (thats the side of nearest your stomach). Its named after Dr Graftenburg, the chap who first discovered it in 1950. Its

existence was then ignored for another few decades until a group of sex educators brought it to the publics attention in a book called The G-spot and Other Recent Discoveries about Sexuality.

Since then the debate has raged on and all kinds of rumours have spread like the one about how, if you stimulate the G-spot correctly, a woman will ejaculate. The fact is, if you stimulate the G-spot correctly you will enjoy it; whether or not you ejaculate is irrelevant. The difference between being a woman who ejaculates and being a woman who doesnt is akin to being either blonde or

brunette: believe me, neither one is predestined to have more fun.

Now that youre able to forgive yourself if you dont gush like a waterfall at the very thought of running a finger over the Big G, youre ready to embark on a journey of sheer pleasure. There are several ways to stimulate this bountiful erogenous zone: one or possibly even all of them will work for you.

BY INTERCOURSE

Adopting positions where the glans or head of his penis rubs over the front wall of the vagina makes it easier for him to hit your hot spot. Try doggy-style positions where your back and his chest are touching or close

enough to ensure you get just the right angle.

Alternatively, lie flat on your bed with your legs over the edge. Have him kneel between your knees and enter you with slow shallow thrusts or ask him to roll his hips imagining that his penis is drawing circles against your front vaginal wall.

BY HAND

To tease your G with your fingers, you may have a better reach if you prop your back up on some pillows. Then lie back, open wide, insert a digit or two and stroke the front vaginal wall in a gentle scooping motion. As you become more aroused dont be surprised if you feel your G-spot start to swell.

Your partner can also get in on the act: have him sit between your legs, then put his finger inside you making a come hither motion against your hot spot.

BY TOYS

For the best results you or your partner can tickle your G-spot with specially designed toys. The Ultra Seven (27) is shaped with a thicker base to push against your G-spot during penetration and has seven different settings so you can experiment with each buzz. There are also curved toys like the Promises (16). Aim the slightly hooked head at your G-spot for a direct hit.

My favourite is the Twist & shout (14). Each ridge of its hard ribbed shaft bumps over your G-spot as you slide it in and out while powerful vibrations seep through your entire groin at the same time. Totally mind-blowing.